Social Issues

276 Nigerian Girls were Abducted while we read about the Kardashians, Bieber, and the NFL Draft

Photo from www.pri.org
Photo from http://www.pri.org

For weeks now, I have been very busy with various writing projects, PTA responsibilities, coaching, and that other thing that I am. What is it again? Oh yeah, a stay-at-home dad. So I haven’t really paid much attention to what’s going on in the world. If something major happens, then I’ll see a link and a picture on the front page of my most-visited news sights, like CNN, NY Times, MSNBC, and Yahoo. I’m so busy that I rely on those pages to keep me abreast of what’s happening in the world; if something stands out, then I’ll click on it and then go back to my day.

Shortly after arriving home from the Mom 2.0 Summit Conference, I saw a twitter comment about Boko Haram stealing girls and bragging that they’ll sell them on the market. I was not aware of this story and so I flipped over to CNN.com. I was shocked at what I read. 276 Nigerian girls were abducted from a school on April 14th. 276 girls that had a lifetime of hope ahead of them. 276 daughters, sisters, friends… young innocent children. Innocent!

If you’re a parent, you should be pissed. No, if you are a human, you should be pissed. Let’s make this personal. Because some girls RIGHT NOW are crying for their mommies and daddies. And their mommies and daddies are not there. Just last night my 2 year old had a nightmare and within seconds I was holding his hand as he drifted off back to sleep. These girls’ nightmares are real and happening right now and there is NOBODY to hold their hands.

Feeling mad? Feeling like swearing? Feeling like punching Boko Haram’s leader in his big fat ugly cowardly face? Feeling mad that nothing has happened?

Now go look at yourself in the mirror. Go ahead. This page will be hear when you come back.

Done?

You know what, I need to go look in the mirror too. I’ll be back.

Done.

We are also to blame. The news industry reports and promotes on what we, the consumers, want to read. In the past couple of weeks, we’ve read constantly about where Johnny Football might be playing next year. We’ve read endlessly about Kim and Kanye. CNN has been searching for the Malaysian plane (which is a news story by the way, but it doesn’t need to take up so much time). We’ve also read about Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, and the release of the Spiderman and X-Men movies and the next Star Wars movie. And during that time, parents have been screaming and crying. And who knows what’s happening to those girls… Those poor innocent girls.

Let’s put ourselves into their situation. Into the parent’s situation. Let’s say this happened to you. You send your daughter off to school, and she doesn’t come home. She’s brutally taken from her school and you have no idea where she is and what has happened to her. You want the world to help. You want the world to do something. You want the world to see your heartbreak and fear. But the rest of the world is reading about Chloe Kardashian’s new skinny waist, Justin Bieber being an idiot, and the latest scores, trends, nip slips, or whatever else that dominates your news feeds.

So, what can we do?

  • Use hashtag #BringBackOurGirls on your social media outlets.
  • Sign the White House petition by May 25th asking for our government to intervene.
  • Donate to the Nigerian Red Cross. (Those families will need the help)
  • Stay up to date. Read, write, march, vote – just don’t let this be another story that has happened in Africa that breaks our hearts for a moment, then we move on.

This horrible group also butchered dozens of boys in a school in February, and nobody heard about it.

How are you feeling? What are you going to do?

Photo from www.theobamadiary.com
Photo from http://www.theobamadiary.com
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12 comments

  1. Well said, but one correction: Boko Haram is a Muslim terrorist organization, not an individual person. Its name translates to “Western education is infidel/forbidden/sinful” in Hausa, one of the many languages spoken in Nigeria. It has repeatedly attacked Christians and moderate Muslims in its campaign to wipe out Western style education and establish nationwide sharia law.

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  2. Why is the list in order of first name instead of last name? Do you not want people to realize that maybe entire families or siblings were taken? Slightly strange.

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    1. I didn’t create the list. You’ll have to take it up with theobamadiary as to why it is listed by first name. But I don’t think there is anything strange about it. I doubt anyone is trying to keep people from knowing that families were taken together.

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  3. We have been following this story. Wasn’t aware of a White House petition for the US to intervene. Where is the petition located?

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  4. Sad commentary on our society in general. I still remember when JFK was shot and the new covered the story for the entire weekend, preempting regular broadcasts and one of my friends complaining that she wasn’t able to watch her tv shows. So this is really nothing new.

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